Last week I finally trained in lash lifts, I’ve been wanting to do this since seeing it at the beauty show a few years ago but you know, life happens and I just hadn’t got round to it.
The training was a day and I was really lucky I got the chance to be model for our teacher Angela and work on two models! This meant not only did I leave with beautiful lashes I got to train, experience, learn and question with two totally different types of lashes. It was great. One of my models already had long curly lashes but they went all ways and were quite fair on the ends so the results were still so striking and clear.
I found the process quite easy to learn and thanks to my ITEC beauty training knew the background, A&P and contraindications to eye treatments already. I find this reassuring as it’s not a big focus in the days training but the process is and I nailed it!
I then spent the weekend with models booked in so I could work on my set up, flow and perfecting the process. I loved it, I loved chatting with everyone booked in, I loved that I was making people feel beautiful with what they’ve got, I loved the results, the models loved the results too, I really loved their faces when they first looked in the mirror!
What I did learn is I need to work on my photography skills for my before and after pics as the ones above and below really don’t do the work or results justice!
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The weeks are flying by super quick. This wreaks havoc with both my anxiety and my never ending to do lists, but silver lining it also means it’s only 3 weeks to go until the Be You Beautiful Christmas Pamper & Shop and I’m so excited!
Today I thought I’d answer some common questions I get about the events just to let people know more if they are thinking of coming along, encourage more people to share and invite others who may have asked questions.
Why do I host the Events?
Truth be told I don’t actually make a lot of money. I pay for venues with atmosphere, bars, parking and facilities clients and traders need, plus we do it on a prime night …Friday. So hall, marketing, decoration, printing, goody bags and stuff all mounts up. The hours I spend talking to traders and people about the event, the hours I spend thinking of ways to support, promote and get the word out, I could make better money doing more beauty, but it comes back to that cheesy saying “I’m doing what I love”. It’s not about the money, I trust I’ll work that bit out along the way.
Instead these events give me a chance to do lots of things that light me up helping women indulge and take time for themselves, encouraging beauty, self care and connection, bringing friends and community together, making a difference in multiple ways.
Not to mention the fact I get to work alongside and support traders just like me working hard for themselves doing what they love and all trying to meet the same people. The lovely clients we get through the door, which leads me to the next question …
Who can come?
This is probably best answered by explaining why I started. As a beauty therapist I was attending school pamper evenings enjoying talking to mums as I offered nail services, but noticing that many were alone or just with their ‘mum friends’ and as a mum I understood, I would of likely only gone to my sons school for such an event. I felt more women deserved an evening of treatments, offers, shopping and spending time with friends.
So in answer to the question it’s for women. It’s for any woman, alone or with friends, with 30 minutes or 3 and a half hours to take for themselves, who deserve to indulge in a bit of me time (every woman deserves this and should make time for it!)
What does the evening involve?
We make sure to use venues with everything on offer; free parking, a bar, a spacious venue so we can also offer social tables to sit between shopping, treatments, chatting to traders and others attending on the night. We also have a charity raffle and a special charity drive running alongside this event.
What stalls will be there?
There will be loads. With over 25 stalls all together including; mediums/readers, Therapists offering over 15 beauty and holistic services at amazing rates, traders with unique one off items and on the night offers, goody bags first 50 guests, prize draws, give aways, demos and much more. I’ll be highlighting each of our traders in their own blog as we run up to the event, as well as sharing more about the night with you.
How much is such a fab night going to cost?
£2 entry, then the money for your beverages and spending money. Cash is recommended to bring along on the evening, as not a lot of our traders take card.
How can I get tickets?
You can pay on the door but if you like to be organised or want to treat your friends you can grab your tickets here.
How do I find out more?
If you would like up to date info check out the Facebook event here, if you have more questions get in touch here.
Its only now that I am sat down to update and edit the website and blog, I realise that I don’t enjoy my new business name as much as I did my last. I love the message of Be You Beautiful and making women see their own beauty is still at the forefront of each of my services and every treatment I offer. It doesnt feel the same though, it doesn’t make me cheeky grin like Sweet Cheeks Beauty did each time I say my business name and it doesn’t garner the same giggly smiley reaction either. One that I feel made more of a lasting impression.
Why Did I Change It Anyway?
I changed the name for a number of reasons; I had been working since I first started as sweet cheeks beauty, I felt I had matured as had my client and that it sounded silly and cheap and I was way beyond all that.
And What About Now?
Now in hindsight I realise im never actually going to fully mature. My clients love my fun energetic nature and I like too make people smile from the start. Also a name didn’t make it cheap. My lack of self worth and confidence made me devalue what I was offering. A name change didn’t help it much either, only my new marketing efforts behind the brand relaunch.
Fuck im literally discovering all this as I write… don’t you just love a bit of free flow writing and discovery.
Since naming my business it makes me cringe a little, how many similar businesses there are locally with the same or a really similar name to mine. I now know one was set up before me called Beautiful You but two similar have followed within a 5 mile radius. I feel I cant stand out locally let alone online. It is weirdly frustrating, standing out in a crowd is kinda my thing I guess.
There is a thing in your brain called the reticular activator it filters stuff and flashes up things of noticeable importance as you see them and mine seems to be in full force with the Be You Beautiful business name. It is everywhere I look. I am pretty sure I have seen some form of be you beautiful, beyoutiful, be you, be you be beautiful and other mixes all as business names or tag lines. Its so boring, I feel boring.
Right thats it I’m putting it to vote on the socials, head over to insta stories or the facebook page if you want to join in. I’m pretty sure about how I feel about it; but that could be me being hasty on the whole ‘new year, fresh start’ theme I guess.
I’ve talked before about my Dads attack and how it totally transformed his life and the lives of those around him. Assaulted by a group of people in our local town,left fighting for his life, having brain surgery, plates where they had stamped on him and a very long road of specialist, appointments, reports and recovery. Never returning to what once was his normal, but my survivor and my hero all the same.
The hardest part for my Dad to have had to live with, the part that taunts him, torments him and reminds him daily of the trauma he went through is a noise in his ear, a very loud, very constant noise. This noise is Tinnitus.
Taken from the British Tinnitus Association: Tinnitus is the perception of noises in the head and/or ear which have no external source.
A symptom generated within the auditory system that causes those living with the condition to suffer a ringing, buzzing, hissing, whistling or other often disruptive noise at varying volumes.
My dads tried so many times to find noises to explain it to me and my mum what he lives with each day. Sometimes it can cause him to get angry or upset; when he can’t explain to us how noisy or torturous it is, when we don’t understand, when we can’t hear what he hears and when we forget that we are talking in his bad ear.
Dad describes it as torture so loud and only eased when he finally falls to sleep exhausted by the whooshing, hissing and buzzing.
And so far despite trying various devices, medical and holistic treatments, meditations and more noise to drown out the noise. My dad hasn’t found anything to ease it.
He has broken my heart when he said it makes his life hard to live, he wishes he couldn’t hear anything at all, when it makes him depressed, when it makes him feel alone. I’m an only child and no child ever wants to hear their dad hurting like this.
So when I found the hashtag #TinnitusWeek on Twitter I sat reading through all I could. All the groups and pages, all the links and info and there is so much more than I even realised and I found it all from a hashtag!
I even I put out a tweet about Dad and the guidance, direction and support has all been a bit amazing.
Twitter led me to find a whole heap of information ,people and studies that might help Dad. It’s made me try to understand more for him, to really understand how noisy it is for him all the time and how lonely it can make him feel. It’s brought me a new kindness and understanding for what my Dad goes though and it’s given me hope that there are lots of people just like him battling through. His not alone and they are working so hard to understand it further and find ways to combat the never ending noise.
He has an appointment soon with the ear nose and throat team, thats who overseas a lot and they refer him to specialists as required. I am going to send him along with some information I’ve found. Not to be Dr Google; but I’m hoping with the information other sufferers and professionals have shared with me through #TinnitusWeek and looking at his brain scans they can maybe look to some new ways to support him through this.
Meanwhile I’m hoping the support and tweets of similar stories and words of encouragement, will help dad see he is not alone in trying to battle through everyday.
Huge thanks to the British Tinnitus Association they have shown me so much in the last week and it’s all because of finding this hashtag #TimnitusWeek that’s only just kicking off today!!! I can’t wait to learn more this week, I feel happy and I feel empowered to help my Dad more.
At this point I feel I should say I’m also doing it to help my mum. It effects their lives and how they live and because she is the one who makes it all happen with appointments and specialist and keeping everyone in the know. Plus she loves him, takes care of him committed to her vows and still head over heels in love a warrior woman that amazes me. I want it to get better for both of them.
So early on the first Monday of the year, although it was a bit grey and cold, I woke up early got all the kids school and breakfast bits ready, then drank my cuppa as I set up my spray tanning tent and equipment. And whilst I’m not clever enough to spray tan myself (can you even imagine trying?!?). I am blessed because I taught my other half how to spray tan!
I’ve shared a few clips on my insta stories and over on the page.
I have created this post as I really wanted to share the benefits of a good spray tan. My favourite benefit is the all round feel good factor it gives you with added body confidence and I Love delivering that to women through the spray tanning services I provide.
10 Benefits of Spray Tanning
With full consultation, clothes off, full tan, dry, clothes on your in and out glowing and golden in 25 minutes.
Due to the spray tan guide colour you can see your tan as it’s applied. This colour develops and once washed off you are left with a slightly lighter even tan that lasts up to 10 days.
Choose Your Spray Tan Tone
Light, medium, dark, very dark, a mist, a spray, a definition tan. There is a tan to suit everyone.
Exfoliating the body before a tan removes dead skin cells. Leaving the skin refreshed, looking and feeling smoother providing an even base for your tan and taking care of your skin.
Aftercare with Added Benefits
Taking time to moisturise and love our bodies whilst nourishing and hydrating our skin, so taking care of your tan.
Streak Free Amazing Coverage
When applied by a pro using professional products and with a fully prepped base your tan is sure to be streak free, even toned and fabulous.
Golden Glow without the Damage
Ultimately spray tans are safe and provide you with a tan without the damage because sun bathing in harmful uva and uvb rays is not good for anybodies skin.
*added benefit no tan lines, t-shirt marks, flip flop feet or worse sunburn like a squashie
Body Appears Slimmer & More Toned
With a spray tan you can define and tone all the right places, accentuating features and making you appear slimmer. A spray tan can also reduce the appearance of stretch marks, varicose veins and skin pigmentation.
Feel Good & Boost Your Confidence
A tan just makes you feel good. It makes you smile more, it makes your teeth look whiter and your eyes look brighter. It makes you reach for the brighter clothes in your wardrobe, it makes you pay attention to and love your body a little bit more.
In a survey carried out by tan brand Sienna X 90% of women who had been spray tanned said they immediately felt more confident.
Stay Tanned All Year Round
Living in the uk sunshine is limited. You never know when you may get some sunshine or a break away to guarantee you natural tan, a spray tan can guarantee you a feel good glow all year round.
If you have your spray tan done with me other benefits include…
I put you at ease. I get it -You‘re about to strip off and you are nervous and that’s ok I’ll put you at ease make you feel comfortable and encourage you not to be so shy about your beautiful self. I’ll even share my hang ups if it makes you feel less alone ❤️
I’m funny – I tell dan this all the time, I’m hilarious. Even if I’m not I can normally generate a bit of laughter with my own stories to keep you happy and distracted why you are freezing and nearly naked.
I’m experienced. I’ve been trained in tans over ten years and I’ve done multiple courses with a few of the big brands. Including two levels of tanning with Fake Bake my chosen premium brand, defintion tanning with LDN Skins and product training with Sienna X. I’ve tanned all ages, shapes, sizes . I feel confident helping you decide what tan is best for you, delivering it professionally and giving you the results you want.
I’m a perfectionist. I put a lot into the prep, precision and professional skills applied. I love my job and what I get to do and when I send you out, I want you out wearing the best tan, being the best you and feeling beautiful because of my work.
Have you had a spray tan? What did you love or what puts you off? I’d love to know. I personally love them and think they are such a confidence boosting treat, I wish more women would get past their hang ups or tan fears to try one.
I love it when I get to work with my friends and Chloe from Beautiful Beauty is one of my besties! Our eldest boys were friends before us and met at nursery over 7 years ago, but I feel like we’ve known each other forever. Chloe will be at the event in just under 3 weeks offering waxing, spray tans and beauty products.
Chloe offers a range of beauty treatments from a home based salon in Northfleet. Treatments include tans, waxing, acrylic & gel nails, lash lifts, individual and Russian lash extensions. Also retailing brands like skinny tan and tatti lashes her stall is always beautifully presented with lots of treats for guests on the evening.
You can find Chloe online using the following links, be sure to check Beautiful Beauty Pages out and get booked in early to avoid disappointment on the night.
•Spray Tans (have to be prebooked) £10 •Brow Wax £5 • Lip Wax £5
To get booked in check out the pinned Post on the Facebook event page for all bookable treatments on offer And keep an eye out for lots more blog posts coming sharing all the fabulous traders I get to work alongside on the evening and at Be You Beautiful Events.
So with less than three weeks to go I’m going to be sharing short blog posts with snippets on each of the traders, therapists and stalls we have coming along on the evening.
Bip Bop Shop is a pop up and online shop selling the most delightful gifts, toys and treasures for our little ones.
I’m so excited to share this first one with you because I love Charlotte who runs the business! She is a passionate mumpreneur, who is super lovely to everyone who stops by her stall, goes that extra step to make her service outstanding, has a great energy, amazing unique bits to bring along for everyone to shop and her smile is just infectious!
Having her there is always such a pleasure and her gifts especially unique wooden toys, silver frames and height charts (last time we had orders coming in from France because they caught glimpse of what Charlotte had stocked on the night in a live on our Facebook page)
If you would like to know more or peruse the amazing stock before the evening (even maybe get in a sneaky pre order to collect on the night). Then you can find more from Charlotte @ Bip Bop Shop here…
Not forgetting Charlotte also blogs and you can find that here and enjoy having a read Bip Bop Mum
The event is 30.11.18 at Gravesend rugby club and Bip Bop Shop is one of over 25 traders and therapists I feel super lucky to work alongside on the night. You can find out more about the event here or stay updated on the Facebook event page.
If you don’t know what Minx nails are, welcome, I’m hoping you are new to the site, if not…where have you been?? Minx is one of my favourite treatments to offer at Be You Beautiful. Their slogan being ‘ extend fashion to your finger tips’ adored by many, seen on endless catwalks and covers, with a huge celebrity following, a treatment I trained in with session tech to the stars Liza Smith through her role as an ambassador and representative of Sweet Squared about 10 years ago and I’ve been offering it ever since. Obviously more popular in the summer with it’s often super shiny foils I can give you 10 reason Minx are loved in an instant, infact i did right here. Anyway, I’m not here to sell them to you because they are becoming endangered in the uk and I’m a little bit devastated.
What’s changing with Minx Nails in the UK?
When I went to order and couldn’t find all the designs I was looking for online, I called up the distributor Sweet Squared. These guys are my favourite supplier I have to order from, their customer service is like no other and they are one of the most friendly and helpful teams. As the only Minx distributors in the uk they have chosen to have streamline the designs stocked. They are gone from the hundreds down to just 10 that will be available, and whilst they are pretty and do mean I’ll be able to continue to offer them for the foreseeable future, they pale in comparison to the current choice of hundreds that are available.
And so I obviously, stocked up. Like seriously stocked up.
For a few reasons; Firstly I want to be able to continue to offer my clients an extensive choice of fashion to their fingertips and whilst I know that many clients love pedicures, Gels and glittery nails, I have lots that love Minx and I want to continue to astound them with the beauty and choice available. Secondly it meant I could let clients reserve and hold designs they love with a small deposit for minx appointments in the next 24 months. Also I could see lots I hadn’t before they were gone and try and judge what ones would continue to get picked, and oh my gosh already some of the designs that have been held are beautiful so my second order is going in this week!
You can see my Facebook live of my latest delivery here, please excuse my usual waffle and ramblings, I get so excited about what I get to do.
If you wanted to get some shiny stand out toes and make the most of the last of this years sunshine, get booked in through the contact page. Don’t forget to give us a like and follow to stay updated with the latest posts and pics.
Minx Nails are a polymer foil like a sticker applied to the nail after being heated, mess free with amazing results. With chrome, custom and patterned minx there is a design for everyone to fall in love with. They last 6-8 weeks on toes and around 4-10 days on fingers, making the later more of a special occasion treatment.
I’ve been qualified in Minx for over 10 years now, originally training with celebrity tech Liza Smith through the company serving the pros Sweet Squared. As a way to celebrate my little anniversary I’m sharing ten things I love about Minx Nails
1. Unique, beautiful, eye catching designs that really do extend fashion to your fingertips with a huge range by artists and designers the variety blows me away.
2. How excited people get looking through and selecting their designs.
3. Lots of them are super shiny and show stopping, when wearing them I often catch people staring at my toes.
4. Some of the designs make the perfect gel overlays, another fun way to minx it up and get creative.
5. There are a range of minx perfect for the bridal season and it’s a great additional service at pamper parties for hens and brides.
6. I love any excuse to celebrate, decorate and have fun and so do Minx, there are lots of fun and cute seasonal designs. They have got loads covered including valentines, Easter, Halloween and Christmas.
7. Last 4-8 weeks on toes and around a week on hands and are a perfect self indulgent and stylish treat.
8. Seen on covers and catwalks around the world they are really loved in the fashion industry.
9. It’s not just he fashion industry celebrities love them too, regularly seen on the likes of Beyonce, Katy Perry, P!nk, featured on Lady Gagas album cover and so many more.
10. I’m trained as a Minx Pro, it’s something I am really proud of and I still really love treating clients too, i love how surprised and excited clients get with the end result, and the longetivity of Minx toes makes it a really popular choice for clients.
So there you have it 10 reason I love Minx Nails. I thought I’d share this extra bit. I love that my partner always makes me laugh and is super supportive of me doing what I do so when I just told him I was doing a blog on 10 reasons I love Minx, he counted his 10 finger nails and said just do each one different. He gets it, he gets I’m super passionate but also that these are really are so cool and transformational.
Have you ever had Minx? Maybe you can think of another reason other than my ten on why you think they rock.
So back in May I started a part time day job as temporary cover for a year. I’m very lucky because it’s in the hair and beauty industry, meaning I’m surrounded by products I love, new releases and lots of learning opportunities. It has however effected how I’m working doing mobile beauty kent how much I’m posting and me learning to find the balance between the day job, my life and family and ‘doing it all’ for Be You Beautiful. So I figured a quick post was needed to update you on some of my latest work & August promos.
I haven’t done huge amounts of promotion, I haven’t pushed for new clients and often I am so comfortable with my regulars I forget to take snaps of my work. Here are a few of the latest images…
☀️ Sun-Shining Summer Sizzler not only am I loving the shine of minx foils, the sparkle of Lecenté and the feel good feeling of a spray tan I want everyone else to love it and feel awesome this summer too. So as a totally amazing summer offer with huge savings you can get this great summer saver throughout August.
☀️ Also as I have been so useless snapping my latest work throughout August so any clients who take pics and check in on Facebook or tag @Stefani.BeYouBeautiful on Instagram get sent a free mini surprise.
☀️ Sign up to the newsletter to find out about the latest training I have signed up for and the amazing taster treatment days I will be hosting, where you get to trial new treatments at amazing prices! Spaces will be offered to current clients, then newsletter subscribers before any spaces going out on social media.
More To Follow
There are lots of amazing summer launches and new products I’m loving right now so there will be lots of blogs in the coming weeks with the latest products I have tried,tested, used and reviewed.
I am super passionate. Like I really want to make a big difference and empower others. I want to bring smiles to the people I talk to and the people I am around. I want to spend time loving myself so I can encourage others to do the same, I want people to see their own beauty with the wonder and belief I do, like real raw beauty, not the surface I work with. I want to be a present mum because the time I spend with my children is precious, limited and a gift filled with lessons, wonder and joy. I want to dream big and believe in the possibilities so I can inspire others to do the same. I want to live in abundance so I can give in abundance. I want to see people happy, having fun and enjoying their lives.
On the 9th March I’m hosting my first Pamper & Shop Indulgence event of this year and I wanted to create a post which not only shares part of my bigger why and reasoning behind some of my crazy plans but also explain to you why the events matter to me.
On the surface these are evenings where i bring groups of friends together for a fun and indulgent evening of shopping and pampering with some local businesses, traders and therapists.
How I Work.
I do more than that I support the amazing traders I get to work alongside at my events with a Facebook group just for them, a Traders Pack full of info to support their business, working to make the nights a long term success and with ongoing support and belief on my part. I vet those traders to make sure they see it’s more than a shop and drop and we are creating an atmosphere to be remembered and a night to be enjoyed by all attending.
For those attending I try to think of how I would want to spend an evening or any free time I might have away from family, work and the adventure of day to day life. I think of a place I could socialise with my friends and enjoy their company. I think of all the treatments I might book, or things I may enjoy shopping and then I try and find them and bring them all together. Along with a bar and social tables to be enjoyed, filled with drinks, chatter and laughter in between the strains of shopping and treatments. With the support of local business sponsors I create the most wonderfully filled goody bags with delightful gifts limited in number to make you rush for the experience.
You see it truly matters to me people have a good night. It matters to me the traders I believe in do well and meet fabulous people who rave about them. It matters to me that when I put my name to something I give people the best I can. I wanted people to know all this to know whether they are working alongside or coming along for the evening I am genuinely so grateful they are part of the experience, I’m really excited not only for the quarterly events but the other ways I’m planning to give back, love support and empower going forward with BeYou Beautiful through 2018 and beyond.
I’ve spent today working on different bits for the event, at times I’ve felt like I was running full steam into a brick wall. I wanted to put this post out there so people got why I spend so much time on it, why I talk about it, why I stress about it, why I believe in it. Everything about these nights is ways of me fulfilling my desires to support or light people up, to connect with people and bring people joy.
Hopefully if you are reading this and not to far away you will come along for a fabulous night here are all the details you need.
Photo credits to the super amazing and beautiful Carla Guest photography. I have known Carla for around 25 years but her works speaks for itself, it’s truly exceptional, go check her out.
Before we get to the benefits of gel nails, here is some background information.
Gel nails have been in the nail industry for many years now in different forms, there are many brands and they can come in different forms from pots to polishes and like any other products the packaging, the quality and the prices vary massively.
I trained with OPI in Gel Polishes over 3 years ago, simply because OPI is a brand I have used since my mum let me steal hers when I was a kid, they have always delivered results, been industry leaders and they are recognised as a prestigious brand. Since doing my gel nail training I haven’t looked back, whilst I occasionally do a natural manicure this is by far my most popular treatment.
So today I thought I would take ten minutes with a cuppa to run through the benefits of gel nails…
10 Benefits of Gel Nails.
1. Gel Nails are applied to natural nail.
No drills, no tip, whilst cured under a lamp there is no ‘false’ part of the nail. It also feels more natural and is less rigid on the nail.
2. Gel Nails don’t damage your natural nail.
When removed properly by soaking or in professional wraps there is no risk of damage to the natural nail.
3. They are Super Shiny!
Like seriously! So shiny, it doesn’t dull and maintains a high end looking manicure that lasts.
4. Gel Nails last 2-3 weeks.
Depending how you care for them and the daily work you carry out, gel nails can last up to 21 days!
5. They only take 25-45 minutes.
Like done, dry and out the door, you can even book it into a lunch break (if you have a fab mobile therapist like me!)
6. It protects your natural nails.
Perfect to protect from day to day damage, splitting and breakage.
7. It helps your natural nails grow.
Because it’s prevent day to day damage its stops them breaking and getting shorter meaning over time with repeat treatment and maintenance they grow.
8. No stress of trying to paint your own nails.
You know like the stress of smudging or the painting of the ‘other’ hand – yeah none of that!
9. You feel confident.
A gel manicure makes your hands look nice, you feel confident, others compliment and you smile lots.
10. It’s affordable.
When maintained and look after they last, you save on time, on nail polishes and all the extras and again if you have a nice therapist like me you can even block book to save you more money!
There you have it 10 Benefits to Gel Nails. Would you add anymore?
If you haven’t seen the swishy, sparkly video I created all by myself check it out on the events page here. I’m back to planning pamper events and indulgence nights and I love it, I’ve got the buzz back, it’s awesome. This time round I’m trying to do as much as humanly possible to support the event, the traders and make it stand out as a fabulous evening for all the lovely ladies attending. We have goody bags, fashion shows, demonstrations and over 40 therapists & traders to shop and get pampered from, I love all that goes into it.
Speaking of what I love about the events, that’s why I got started writing today. Here are
10 things I love about organising the Be You Beautiful Pamper Events & Indulgence Nights.
The fear I have to push through to break my comfort zone and get started. Oh my god if you knew how many events I’d actually ‘planned’ this year, you’d laugh. I was just to scared to launch. So those first few phone calls where I push through the barrier I love that. It proves how much I want it’s makes me feels stronger, it gets me more pumped for the event.
Connecting back up with businesses I love! I have actually been organising events just like this for almost 8 years. What I really love about this is some of the traders like Toxic Angel Jewellery, For Girlys Boutique and a few more have all been working with me since the start, they get me, they know my events and it’s an added bonus that I love to shop both of the ones mentioned as soon as they start laying out their tables!
Meeting new businesses and the people behind them. Whilst it’s lovely to have the ongoing support with those I know, it’s really great to here someone’s passion when describing their business to me for the first time. It’s fab to meet the people behind the websites, social media and emails. I have always loved meeting new people so this is a really great part of the job, plus people get me and my energy more face to face. I think!
Supporting Charities in the process. We have a charity raffle on the evening because all the businesses involved donate a prize. We have my nan and aunt sorting the tickets (they are legends and I do believe the sole reason that some people attend the events!). We choose a different charity each time and try and do our best whilst raising money, to spread as much of their message as we can. I have some extra ways people will be helping charity at the next event. I thought outside the box and I’m quite excited to announce it along with our chosen charities in two weeks time.
Supporting and Shopping Local. I know how much effort it takes to start a business, I know how much effort it requires to keep going, it’s a lot and at times I thought about giving up. So I try and shop local whenever I can. Even to the point I buy cards from my mum, I refuse to have them for free (she undervalues herself far too much already) and I’d rather I have something beautiful, unique and made by her than store brought. (It’s a great idea anyway, now if I could get into the habit of actually delivering people’s cards would be even better!)
The Response & Reaction when I launch the event, it’s really heart warming and it makes me feel more confident in what I’m doing when people tell me they are pleased or excited the events are back, it’s even more awesome…
Saying Hello and Welcoming Guests on the evening. It’s lovely seeing familiar faces, it’s nice that it’s a night of luxury and indulgences so everyone’s chatty and haply. The room is always full of natter and laughter, it’s a real buzz and it flies by super quick
The fluster I get in. It is ironic considering how much I bloody prepare. It just reminds me to go with the flow a little bit I can’t control everything. One year I ran round apologising to traders that it had started snowing because you know I ordered the weather!
The personal feeling of accomplishment once I have pulled it off. I know I have lots of support in the people around me, I know I have lots of businesses working with me and shouting about the event, I know I didn’t do this JUST ME. But it started just me and at some point in the evening I normally have a little pause to take stock of what happens when I keep pushing through the little barriers. I’m proud of myself.
Everyone else’s feedback and reactions. I like providing a night that others really enjoy, I like that women take time out, I like that it’s a night for groups of friends to catch up, I like that the businesses do well and meet new clients as well as catch up with old ones.
There is so much that’s great about these evenings. It’s a pretty awesome feeling getting so many people together. This is the first one since the two small children, so understandably I’m still nervous and scared I’ll forget or mess something up but I don’t think it will be to catastrophic, I plan to much for that!
If you live in the North Kent area and would like a great night out with your friends come along, check our latest events and be sure to share.
So first off gorgeous ones, this is an affiliate post it means I get a little mullah if you click on the links. I Promise though it’s still well worth a read and your time because there are some serious bargains to be had in the Birchbox Sale. I thought to help you on your search I would share my five favourite products in the sale, there was so much more though but I had to stop buying researching, I was getting carried away.
KMS California Freeshape Trio £12.76
My hair is fine & the reviews for this set sound amazing and just what my life,especially hair needs!
Cowshed Grumpy Cow Uplifting Travel Candle Set £15.40
I have been a Grumpy cow this week and so the thought if some time out with these burning away … Bliss!
STYLondon Metallic Tattoos £2.00
These on a tan (real or fake) LOOK AMAZING! I’m going to spray tan and apply one of mine this week just so you can see!
Models Own Disco Pants (Studio 54) £2.50
I have tried a couple of the Models Own polishes and whilst I don’t think they are the best out their they are always on trend and this polish with its metallic shine is no different and a total bargain at £2.50
Laqa&Co Fat Lip Pencil Lambchop £7.00
I am a massive fan of Laqa & Co. I have about 6 now I can’t recommend them enough they glide on, stay put and the packaging is so cute!
⭐️I wanted to add these but as they are only available in a size 2 and so for the few ladies with beautiful petite feet, but oh my god they are so beautiful they just had to be seen…
French Sole Henrietta Ballet Flat: Floral Daze £45.00
There is more than just the Beauty Sale … What is Birchbox?
I have been a subscriber of Birchbox for two years I love that I get a box of hair and beauty treats delivered to my door every month. There are normally 5-7 items some of which are full size. I am able to tailor my favourites and collect up points to use on future purchases.
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I need to create a blog post to verify my Be You Beautiful website on my Bloglovin’ account. So I figured whilst I was doing it rather than an odd post in the middle of nowhere on my blog I would add a bit more to it.
10 Reasons I’m Lovin’ Bloglovin’
Its easy to sign up and connect your Blogs
Its use and layout ooze simplicity and are a joy to use. Just look.
Your Blogs still get page views when read through Bloglovin’. I don’t know how many other similar platforms there are that do this but I liked that it would only help my numbers grow further.
I can display both my blogs in one fend despite the fact that this one is beauty and my other family based. It’s a nice way to bring it all together and showcase what I do more as a whole.
I read through others people blogs so much more. They are all in one place making it such an easy and joyful read. I could read through based on category, latest or the feed of blogs I follow.
It is also easy to follow and share other people’s blogs. All stuff that really excites me as I work on building online connections and relationships.
They track your stats for you. It’s on a graph shows you your reach followers etc, mine is currently a flatline so little point in me showing you! 😆
Over 20 million people use Bloglovin’ to read and share blogs. That’s all kinds of awesome.
Even difficulties aren’t that difficult. Seriously even when I couldn’t fathom the RSS feed on my Mum and Monsters site a little Google, an update and one click made it all sorted